It’s the most foundational of our instincts: intimacy. When the moment is right, there’s no need to put thought into doing what feels right.
But what if you brought mindfulness into your sex life? What if you want to take intimacy to your partner to new levels of pleasure?
It’s time to explore the breathtaking practice of tantric sex.
With sex being everywhere around us, it can be surprising to learn that 50% of women and 68 of menare unsatisfied with their sex lives. Predictability, compatibility, obligations, and self-image all come into play when mindfulness is left out of the bedroom.
Obviously, this isn’t good– and you shouldn’t just accept lackluster intimacy as a part of your life. And at Coconu, we’re all about moving away from the mainstream and towards what is natural and feels right.
We’re going to explore why tantric sex should absolutely be a part of your life, and why you’ll feel better than ever.
Tantric sex is sincere. It leaves behind the pretenses brought into the bedroom like old luggage by the things we see in porn or movies, and what we hear our friends bragging about.
The practice of tantra originated in ancient Asia, and though the original texts have been lost to history, we know that tantric sex has remained a foundational part of many love lives through the centuries.
The word Tantra is a Sanskrit word that has a simple definition stating it is “to extend, expand, spread, continue, put forth, manifest.” Essentially, there is no part of tantra and tantric sex that is separate from the expansion of who you are through this intimate exploration.
Nearly every depiction of sex in the media is fast paced and loud. It’s easily consumable and mindlessly gratifying– in that world of mental fiction, who doesn’t want the woman to orgasm instantly and loudly? Who doesn’t want to feel like a goddess or god with the “perfect” body?
This is not what we need. Our lives are stressful enough, and sex should be equally healing and pleasurable.
There are a million reasons that practicing tantric sex is something you should delve into– body, soul, and mind.
It’s a difficult fact to wrap your mind around, but 30% of women report difficulty reaching orgasm.
Though the female orgasm may seem elusive, getting there is all about breaking down those mental barriers and truly letting yourself, well, feel what you’re feeling!
For both men and women, it’s all about removing yourself from what you’ve thought intimacy was. Tantric sex is starting with a blank slate and letting instinct guide you.
Part of creating a deeper connection with yourself and your partner is simply taking it slow.
Remember the times when you ate something too quickly and, only afterwards, realized that you never stopped to savor the complexity of the taste? Well, the same goes for your intimate moments
It’s all about the slow tease. The sensuality of seeing your partner react to the pleasure you’re creating with every thoughtful touch.
Breathing, looking, kissing, and touching… all of these things should never be rushed.
Good things come to those who wait. It’s unlikely that most of us will have the patience to go through hours of tantric practice before allowing an orgasm to happen, elongating your practice will only lead to a more enjoyable experience.
You’re going to have fun and you’re going to feel good while doing it– savor that. Indulge your mind and body, but save the best for last until you and your partner have reached the climax of the practice and the perfect moment presents itself.
Trust us, you won’t regret it!
There’s no reason to hesitate when it comes to beginning your practice in your everyday life. So let’s talk about how to get into the swing of things:
There’s no set-in-stone way to have tantric sex so there aren’t any step-by-step rules, but here are a few ideas:
This experience of tantric sex doesn’t end with an orgasm, here’s what you can take outside of the bedroom.
You’ve read all about it - get out there and experience what sex without barriers can really be. Have fun and remember that we’re always there for you with our all-organic products.