Soft romantic music, scented candles and mood lighting setting the tempo in your home? Looks like it’s going to be a good night...
And, if you didn’t know, using a natural lubricant like coconut oil can seriously up your odds of climaxing.
Converts know how a little extra lube can make each touch and thrust that much more sensual. You may even find yourself inspired to try new positions and moves.
Read on, and find out why a natural lubricant should always be within reach when you’re in a playful mood.
In an ideal situation, your body would provide adequate lubricant to keep you turned on and slick from the beginning to end of your time together.
But, let’s face it this isn’t always the case.
Sex therapist and author of Lube Jobs: A Woman’s Guide to Great Maintenance Sex, Debra Macleod says that many people believe the myth that if a woman is completely aroused, she’ll get extremely wet and stay that way until she orgasms. Macleod says that this is a false notion.
The reality is, it doesn’t matter how turned on a woman is. She may not get that wet, or she may even remain completely dry down there.
Reasons could include medications or slight dehydration. There’s even a possibility that she may not lubricate fast enough to keep up with the action.
This is where organic personal lubricants can prevent you from experiencing painful (and, sometimes, painfully boring!) sex. Natural lubricants will keep you and your partner going by maintaining a steady rhythm and hence, reaching awesome orgasmic heights.
When you’re wet, he can thrust continuously. Moreover, it’s that much easier for him to control and vary the speed. Macleod goes on further to say that the extra stimulation can help build the sexual tension and successfully bring you to climax.
According to a study in Independent, a study of about 2,500 women aged between 18 and 68 revealed that 9 out of 10 women felt that sex was much better, more comfortable, and more pleasurable with the use of lubricants!
So, which organic lube should you use?
While there are all kinds of organic personal lubricants available out there, consider using a coconut oil based personal lubricant.
By using a personal lubricant that has coconut oil as its main ingredient, you’ll be helping keep things warm by retaining heat. Warmth relieves discomfort during sex, making it easier to achieve orgasm.
Want to go even further? This is a great lubricant to use as a massage oil it feels great over the entire body.
Maybe you’ve been there. Frequent sex can cause a woman’s pH levels to reduce considerably. This can lead to yeast infections.
When a man ejaculates inside a vagina, his semen can also knock off a woman’s pH levels because it has a very different pH level than an average healthy vagina. This causes infections, not to mention making women more susceptible to all kinds of STIs.
Since coconut oil has antifungal properties, it can help women stave away from such infections.
Foreplay that includes fingering, as well as frequent sex, can cause the skin to chafe.
Using coconut oil during foreplay and intercourse reduces the burning sensation, because it lubricates the skin. It also reduces chafing, and the healing properties of the oil soothes the skin to a great extent.
A dry vagina may also feel itchy. But itchiness doesn’t always mean that there’s an infection. Coconut oil can also help relieve this discomfort.
Although organic lubricants are allnatural, it always makes sense to test first before applying one onto your private parts. A new product that you’ve never used before can be tested on a sensitive area of your skin, like the inside of your arm.
We recommend testing your lube on both your partner and yourself to make sure you aren’t allergic to it!
If you’re not a big fan of oil messing up your sheets, you may want to consider c oconut waterbased natural personal lubricant, for easier cleanup.
And, since coconut water is the closest to the most natural ingredient out there, these lubes are usually very gentle and soothing on your skin.
Waterbased lubricants can also be used with any types of condoms since they don’t compromise their integrity. The condoms will remain intact and not rip or tear easily.
Silicone is also hypoallergenic, making it a great choice for people who have allergies or sensitive skin. Since their main ingredient is silicone, these lubricants also last longer and don’t need to be reapplied as often.
Although these lubricants can be used with any condoms, they shouldn’t be used with silicone toys. They tend to break down the rubber over time.
We absolutely recommend using natural lubricants, especially those looking to take their night to the next level.