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What is Pillow Talk? Building Intimacy & Trust with Your Partner

Ready to cozy up under the sheets and have deeper conversations with your S.O.? Say hello to pillow talks! It lets you bask in the wonderful sexual afterglow and truly appreciate your intimacy with your partner. Dive into this article to find out how to go about it and what topics you can discuss.

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5 Seductive Tips to Talk About Sex in a New Relationship (+3 FAQs)

Great sex is the ultimate bedroom goal! But to be truly intimate with your lover, you must master sex talk. And that can be an uphill task, especially in a new relationship. Don't worry. We'll help you with these 5 easy tips on talking about sex in a new relationship, along with 3 key FAQs.

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How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner: 13 Proven Tips [2023]

We get it. It’s much easier to slip under the covers than to have an honest and vulnerable conversation about sex. But here’s the thing: talking about sex is key to a fulfilling sex life. Try our 13 tips for an invigorating, sexy discussion leading to better sex!

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5 Secrets to Talking About Sex Without Being Awkward or Embarrassed

Opening up about your secret fantasies and desires can leave you feeling vulnerable. And because discussing sex and sexuality can be taboo in many cultures, it’s no surprise that the idea has most of us feeling uneasy. However, getting over the initial awkwardness is key to a fulfilling sex life! Here are 5 foolproof tips that can help you talk about sex without being awkward.

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Sexual Conversation Starters: 40 Ways to Get In the Mood

Talking about sex with your lover can be intimidating. But if you want a healthy relationship, you need to be open and honest about what you want — whether it's taking sex outside the bedroom or having a deeper sexual conversation to strengthen your bonds. To help you start on the right note, try out these 40 exciting sexual conversation starters, from flirty to dirty.

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8 Non-Awkward Ways To Talk To Your Partner About Lack Of Intimacy

Lack of intimacy goes beyond the bedroom — it can affect the non-sexual parts of your relationship, making you feel lonely even in a loving relationship. Instead, if you communicate your wants, desires, and needs with your partner, you're bound to find that spark again which will kickstart a beautiful sexual and romantic relationship.

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Cornstarch Lube: How to Make it at Home (DIY), Benefits, Alternatives

Cornstarch lube is a fantastic DIY water-based lube alternative for those times when you run out of your favorite lube. All you need is cornstarch and water to create the perfect, organic, and safe lube for sexual activity. And if DIY lubes are your jam, we'll cover a few more recipes that you can use to make the fun times going.   

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Can You Use Olive Oil As Lube? What Are The Risks Involved?

Olive oil can be a natural lube alternative for when you run out of your favorite one. However, you should ensure that you use extra virgin olive oil and a polyurethane condom while doing so as the oil itself can break down latex condoms. Read about how to safely use olive oil as lube in this informative article to keep the fun going on for hours.

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5 Reasons to Avoid Vaseline as Lube (+ What To Do Instead)

You may consider using Vaseline when you run out of your favorite lube while getting hot and heavy with your partner. But Vaseline can seriously degrade the effectiveness of condoms, ruin your sex toys, and even increase your chances of getting an infection. Read about the risks of using Vaseline as lube and some natural alternatives you can use instead.

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Can You Use Baby Oil As Lube? (6 Major Risks + 3 Safer Alternatives)

It can be easy to reach for baby oil when you've run out of your favorite lube and don't want to break the moment. But this might not be the best idea as baby oil can break down condoms, cause infections, and stain your sheets. Read more about the risks of using baby oil as lube and what you can use instead.

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What Does Intimacy Mean to Men vs. Women?

Intimacy. What does it mean? Some may have a very narrow concept of intimacy, especially if there’s a lack of education or available resources to glean from. Today, we thought it might be valuable to dig int...

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Can You Use Vegetable Oil As Lube? (Plus 6 Other Natural Alternatives)

Have you ever run out of your favorite lube right before things got steamy?  There’s nothing worse than having to rummage through your pantry looking for a suitable lubricant substitute. But, ‘fret not, for...

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